Money Management Tips for Couples




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Jul 01, 2022

By Mike Russ, Investment Advisor Representative at World Trend Financial

Mike RussCouples consistently report finances as the leading cause of stress in their relationship. Here are a few tips to avoid conflict with your long-term partner or spouse.

  • Be transparent. Be honest with each other about your financial status. As you enter a committed relationship, each partner should learn about the status of the other person's debts, income, and assets. Any surprises down the road may feel like dishonesty and lead to conflict.
  • Frequently discuss future plans. The closer you are with your partner, the more you will want to know about the other person's future plans. Children, planned career changes, travel, hobbies, retirement expectations — all of these will depend upon money and shared resources. Discuss these plans together and create the financial roadmap to go with them. Remember that even people in a long-term marriage may be caught unaware if they fail to keep up communication and find out their spouse's priorities have changed over time.
  • Know your comfort levels. As you discuss your future plans, bring up hypotheticals: How much debt is too much? What level of spending versus savings is acceptable? How much would you spend on a car, home, or vacation? You may be surprised to learn that your assumptions about these things fall outside your partner's comfort zone.
  • Divide responsibilities, combine forces. Try to divide financial tasks such as paying certain bills, updating a budget, contributing to savings, and making appointments with tax and financial advisors. Then periodically trade responsibilities over time. Even if one person tends to be better at numbers, it is best to have both members participating. By having a hand in budgeting, planning, and spending decisions, you will be constantly reminded how what you are doing financially contributes to the strength of your relationship.
  • Learn to love compromising. No two people have the same priorities or personalities, so differences of opinion are going to happen. One person is going to want to spend, while the other wants to save. Vacation may be on your spouse's mind, while you want to put money aside for a new car. By acknowledging that these differences of opinion will happen, you will be less frustrated when they do. Treat any problems as opportunities to negotiate and compromise.

Please feel free to reach out to Mike at mruss@tld-inc.com or any of the investment advisor representatives at World Trend to discuss your specific financial concerns. They can be reached in Cedar Rapids at 319-364-3041 or in Iowa City at 319-339-4884.



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